Walking With Your Eyes Wide Open

Walking With Your Eyes Wide Open

Walking by faith doesn’t mean closing your eyes or sticking your head in the ground, so you don’t know what’s going on around you. Instead, it’s a choice to focus on God. It’s a decision to continue doing things God’s way and trusting Him for the outcome, despite what’s happening in your life.

I’ve heard people say that Christians need to take a blind leap of faith to trust God. The insinuation is that you need to leave behind all reason and follow God solely based on emotion and a lack of thought.

But that isn’t true. God has given us the Bible. In those pages, God has revealed Himself to us. He tells us what He likes, what He hates, where we came from, where we are going, and much more.

As we consider the things we read in the Bible, God invites us,

Come now, and let us reason together. (Isaiah 1:18 (NKJV))

And Jesus told us to “count the cost” before deciding to follow Him (Luke 14:27-30 (NKJV)). Jesus warned us that it wouldn’t be easy. God wants us to ask questions about who He is and why we should follow Him.

It’s only after we decide to follow Jesus that God instructs us to “walk by faith, not by sight” (2 Corinthians 5:7 (NKJV)). Still, the direction is not to close our eyes. Instead, the Bible tells us that we should be “looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith” (Hebrews 12:1-2 (NKJV)). The Greek word for “looking” means to turn our eyes away from other things and fix them on Jesus.

It’s like a horse walking with blinders on. The purpose of the blinders is not so the horse can’t see at all – the blinders don’t go over the horse’s eyes. The blinders are placed on the outer sides of the horse’s eyes to keep the horse focused on the road in front of him. The blinders keep the horse from getting distracted by the things around him. In a similar way, when we walk by faith and not by sight, we must keep our eyes on Jesus.

We can get distracted by the things that are going on around us – things we have no control over.

  • Every day, the news informs us about people who are killed, storms, wars, disease, and many other horrible things. Our thoughts can be consumed by those awful things.
  • We can become divided over social issues. It’s easy to get caught up in arguments about whether everyone should or shouldn’t be vaccinated, the effectiveness of wearing masks, and how the government should or shouldn’t be handling the pandemic.

When we get sidetracked by these things, we are derailed from God’s plans for our lives.

Don’t misunderstand me. You shouldn’t ignore the things that need to be taken care of in your life. It is important to care for your family and be a good steward of the things that God has entrusted to you. God has placed people into your life for a reason. He wants you to love those people, help them with their needs, and tell them about Him.

Yet, first and foremost, we need to keep our eyes focused on Jesus. We need to spend time with Him, reading the Bible, praying to Him, and worshipping Him. As Jesus taught us, “I am the vine, you are the branches. He who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit; for without Me you can do nothing” (John 15:5 (NKJV)).

We are unable to care for the people in our lives the way God wants us to without first being empowered by Jesus. Jesus gives us the strength we need, gives us direction, tells us which way to go, and tells us the things we should do. When our eyes are fixed on Jesus, we’re not distracted by the things going on around us.

There’s a beautiful hymn written by Helen Howarth Lemmel that encompasses this very idea. The refrain of the hymn encourages us,

Turn your eyes upon Jesus,

Look full in His wonderful face,

And the things of earth will grow strangely dim,

In the light of His glory and grace.

So, keep your eyes wide open as you follow Jesus. Turn your eyes upon Him. Spend time with your Savior. Take in all that He wants you to see.

 

Unloved

Unloved

Have you read about Jacob, Leah, and Rachel in the Bible? Each time I read about them, I tend to look at it from Jacob’s perspective – a love story with obstacles placed in the path of the hero. But the other day, God showed me Leah’s point of view. Before we turn to Leah, let’s remind ourselves what happened to Jacob.

In obedience to his parent’s request, Jacob traveled to their relatives’ country to find a wife (Genesis 28:1-2, 5; 29:1, 4-5). When Jacob saw Rachel, he fell in love (Genesis 29:9-11, 18). Jacob agreed to work for Rachel’s father, Laban, for seven years so he could marry Rachel (Genesis 29:18). The years seemed only a few days because of his love for her (Genesis 29:20).

At the end of the seven years, it was time for the wedding (Genesis 29:21). The day had finally come for Jacob to marry the woman he loved. But on the wedding night, Laban had Leah (Rachel’s older sister) go into the wedding tent (Genesis 29:23). The following morning, Jacob realized that he had actually married Leah (Genesis 29:25).

How could Jacob have married Leah, thinking she was Rachel? Commentaries explain that the traditional wedding attire included a veil that would have entirely concealed Leah’s features. The veil, along with the alcohol that would have been consumed during the wedding feast, would make it possible for Jacob to unknowingly marry Leah.

Jacob was upset. And rightfully so. Laban had tricked him into marrying Leah because it was customary for the elder daughter to be married first (Genesis 29:26). Yet, Laban also agreed that Jacob could marry Rachel if Jacob worked for him another seven years (Genesis 29:27). Eventually, Jacob also married Rachel (Genesis 29:28-30).

So that’s Jacob’s point of view – he received the short end of the stick from Laban. He ended up marrying a woman he never intended to marry, a woman he didn’t love.

But now let’s look at it from Leah’s viewpoint.

First, we know that Leah was not beautiful like her younger sister. The Bible tells us that her eyes were “delicate” (Genesis 29:17 (NKJV)).  That either means she couldn’t see well or she had blue eyes instead of the more accepted brown eyes of her culture. Although that may not seem like a big thing, the contrasting description of Rachel as “beautiful of form and appearance” shows us that Leah was not attractive like her sister (Genesis 29:17 (NKJV)).

Second, we know that she watched Jacob pursue her sister. Jacob was attracted to Rachel, not Leah.

Third, her father had her sneak into the marriage tent to deceive Jacob into marrying her. How do you think she felt knowing her father thought the only way a man would marry her was to be tricked into doing so?

Finally, the Bible tells us that Jacob loved Rachel more than Leah (Genesis 29:30). Leah was married to a man who didn’t love her. That, in and of itself, would be difficult. But the situation was compounded by the fact that her husband was also married to another woman that he did love. And that other woman was her sister.

But God saw that Leah was unloved. (Genesis 29:31). So, God “opened her womb; but Rachel was barren” (Genesis 29:31 (NKJV)).

Given Rachel’s barrenness, it appears that Leah tried to get Jacob to love her by bearing him children.

  • When Leah had Jacob’s first son, she named him Reuben, which means, “Look a son” (Genesis 29:32). And Leah said, “The LORD has surely looked on my affliction. Now therefore my husband will love me” (Genesis 29:32 (NKJV)).
  • Then Leah bore Jacob a second son and said, “Because the LORD has heard that I am unloved, He has therefore given me this son also” (Genesis 29:33 (NKJV)). So she named him Simeon, which means heard (Genesis 29:33).
  • Leah conceived again and bore Jacob a third son (Genesis 29:34). Leah said, “Now this time my husband will become attached to me, because I have borne him three sons” (Genesis 29:34 (NKJV)). She called him Levi, which means “joined to.”

For several years, Leah tried to earn Jacob’s love by bearing him children. You can feel her pain – always feeling second rate to her sister, married to a man who didn’t love her, trying to win her husband’s love, and wanting to feel loved.

Then something changed. Maybe Leah finally realized she was looking to the wrong one for love. We don’t know what caused Leah’s heart change. But she stopped focusing on what she didn’t have and started looking at what God had already given her.

So when Leah had her fourth son, she said, “Now I will praise the LORD” and named him Judah, which means praise (Genesis 29:35 (NKJV)). She learned to praise God – not for her circumstances but in her circumstances.

Maybe you feel like Leah – plain, overlooked, and unloved. No matter what your circumstances are or how invisible you feel, the truth is that God sees you. And God loves you. God loves you so much that He sent His only begotten Son to die on the cross for your sins so you can have a relationship with Him (John 3:16).

God has not overlooked you. Just as God saw Leah, God sees you. And when you come to Him, like Leah did, praise will flow out of your heart.

 

Shift Your Perspective

Shift Your Perspective

Mornings are hard. I have always secretly envied people (like my husband) who are able to wake up early and still be congenial, outgoing, and talkative from the get-go. If I have to get up early, it seems the only thing I can focus on is how bad I feel – the brain fog and the general malaise.

I recently saw a mug that declared, “A fun thing to do in the morning is not talk to me.” Yeah, that pretty much sums it up.

During COVID, I worked from home. Without the long commute, I was able to slowly wake up before I had to travel down the hallway to our loft where I had set up my home office. I quickly adapted to my new routine. Needless to say, my morning disposition greatly improved.

But now it was time to go back to work at my real office. We had been summoned by those with the authority to change my morning routine. So, in the wee hours before the rising of the sun, I dragged my body out of bed. And I grumbled.

The Bible instructs us not to complain (1 Corinthians 10:10). The Greek word used for complain means to murmur or grumble against in a low tone. It shows a discontentedness with the way things are in your life.

Yet, I had been grumbling and complaining every chance I got. I grumbled in my head. I whined to my husband, coworkers, and friends. I complained about having to get up early. I criticized those who had made the decision to bring us back to the office given that we would be required to wear masks. I felt justified with my grumbling since I’m not a morning person.

Then God reminded me that we’re not supposed to grumble. While I was teaching other women in a Bible study, one of the verses talked about grumbling.

Do not grumble against one another, brethren, lest you be condemned.” (James 5:9 (NKJV))

Ironic, isn’t it? There I was, telling them how they shouldn’t grumble when I had been doing that very thing. A few weeks later, God brought that verse to my remembrance, and the self-application finally sunk in.

I realized that my perspective was wrong. I had only been focused on the early hours and how my body felt. I had lost the bigger picture.

When I shifted my perspective, I could see all that God had given me. Sure, I now had to wake up early, but God was still blessing my life.

  • God had continued to provide me with a job.
  • God gave me coworkers that I enjoy working with.
  • God provided me with the opportunity to spend time with Him in the morning while I commuted in my car – time to sing praises to Him, listen to His word, and pray.

I had forgotten that God is in control of everything. Nothing happens in my life without it going through Him first. There is a reason for everything. God had a reason for allowing the early hours and the long commute back into my life – even if I couldn’t see what it was. I can be certain that God will use whatever happens in my life for His glory.

I had also forgotten that grumbling ruins your witness to others. When you complain, the people around you will wonder why they should be a Christian when you aren’t any different than anyone else. Jesus said,

By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another. (John 13:35 (NKJV))

Jesus didn’t say they would know you are His disciple by your complaining. There is no love in grumbling.

Jesus also told us,

You are the salt of the earth; but if the salt loses its flavor, how shall it be seasoned? It is then good for nothing but to be thrown out and trampled underfoot by men. (Matthew 5:13 (NKJV))

Figuratively, Jesus was telling us that, as His followers, we are to exhibit wisdom and grace in our speech. As Pastor Jon Courson put it, “Salt promotes thirst, and as the salt of the earth, we should be making those around us thirsty for the living water of Jesus Christ.” We cannot be witnesses that will bring others to Jesus when we are complaining about things.

So I repented and asked God to forgive me for grumbling. “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9 (NKJV)). Praise God! Then I purposed in my heart to stop grumbling.

Have you been complaining about something? It may be something that seems unfair to you. And the situation may be unfair. Either way, God is faithful in your life.

If you’ve been grumbling, it’s time to change your perspective about your situation. Take a step back and ask God to show you the bigger picture. Instead of ruminating on what’s wrong, shift your focus from your circumstances to our faithful God. Make a list about the ways that God has been faithful in your life. Then meditate on God’s faithfulness. You can trust God as you walk by faith with Him.

Radical Demonstrations of Faith

Radical Demonstrations of Faith

The Bible gives us many examples of faith, some so amazing that it’s hard for me to wrap my head around them. One of those was Abraham. When God told Abraham, “Get out of your country, from your family and from your father’s house, to a land I will show you,” Abraham “departed as the Lord had spoken to him” (Genesis 12:1, 4 (NKJV)).

Did you notice that God didn’t tell Abraham where he was going? Instead, God told him that He would show him, meaning God would show him at some later point in time. Yet, Abraham immediately obeyed. He packed up his household and left. Abraham didn’t ask a bunch of questions and drag his heels. He trusted God and did what God told him to do.

Noah is another radical example of faith in God. One day, seemingly out of the blue, God tells Noah that He is going to destroy every living thing on the earth with a flood (Genesis 6:13, 17). And God instructed Noah to build an ark that would hold Noah, his wife, his three sons and their wives, and two of every kind of every living thing (Genesis 6:14-16, 18-19).

Could you imagine? One day, you wake up and start taking care of the things you need to do that day. Then God tells you that He is going to destroy every living thing with a flood.

What would you do if that happened to you? I would likely have questioned God. I would have wanted to know more of the details.

How will the flood happen?

When will it happen?

Will I have plenty of time to build the ark?

Where am I supposed to get all of that wood?

Do I really need to put pitch on the inside and the outside?

Wouldn’t it be sufficient just to put the pitch on the outside?

Would three decks really be enough to hold everything?

But the Bible doesn’t tell us that Noah questioned God. Instead, after God finished telling him how to build the ark, the Bible tells us that Noah did “according to all that God commanded him” (Genesis 6:22 (NKJV)). Noah was obedient to do what God told him to do.

Later, after the ark had been built, God tells Noah to go into the ark with his family because “after seven more days” He would cause it to rain on the earth (Genesis 7:4 (NKJV)) We know that Noah obeyed God because in the very next verse the Bible tells us that “Noah did according to all that the Lord commanded him” (Genesis 7:5 (NKJV)).

What would you do in that situation? I know what I would do. I would ask why I needed to go into the ark when there were still seven more days before the rain was going to start.

But Noah had great faith. He immediately obeyed God. We should also respond with immediate obedience when God tells us to do something. We shouldn’t procrastinate, questioning God, before we finally decide to do what God wants us to do.

What if Noah had waited to go into the ark? What if he thought, “I could wait a few days and still go in five days before the rain starts, that would be plenty of time.” We don’t know what would have happened because the Bible doesn’t tell us.

Maybe something would have prevented Noah and his family from going into the ark if they had waited. Maybe nothing would have happened. Either way, the fact that Noah immediately obeyed God shows us that Noah had faith. He believed God and did what God told him to do because he trusted that God knew the best way to do what needed to be done.

And Noah’s faith pleased God. Noah is named in the revered “Hall of Faith.” The Bible tells us,

By faith Noah, being divinely warned of things not yet seen, moved with godly fear, prepared an ark for the saving of his household, by which he condemned the world and became heir of the righteousness which is according to faith. (Hebrews 11:7 (NKJV))

Let’s be like Abraham and Noah, trusting God with our lives.

What is God calling you to do? Maybe He’s calling you to serve at your church. Or maybe He’s asked you to pray for or encourage someone.

Maybe you’ve questioned God about what He’s called you to do. You may think you’re not good enough. Or you may be worried how the person would react if you asked to pray for her.

Don’t worry about whether you are good enough or what other people may think. God will equip you to do what He’s called you to do. And we should be more concerned about disobeying God than how other people may respond to us.

When you hear God speaking to you, telling you to do something, step out in faith. Instead of questioning God, be obedient. Do what God has asked you to do. Let your life be a radical demonstration of faith that will encourage others to walk by faith with God.

The Giver of Good Things

The Giver of Good Things

Good things come to those who wait. That old adage is not necessarily true. You can wait for a good thing your whole life and never get it.

And where is the good thing supposed to come from? A popular notion is that the universe is the arbiter of who gets what. I’ve heard people say something like, “The universe is against me,” when they don’t get something they want. Others believe in karma, saying they didn’t get something because they did something they weren’t supposed to do or said something they shouldn’t have said.

But the truth is that the universe doesn’t give you anything. The universe is a created thing, not the creator. Instead,

[e]very good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and comes down from the Faither of lights, with whom there is no variation or shadow of turning. (James 1:17 (NKJV))

God gives us good things.

God gives good things to those who love Him and to those who don’t. Jesus taught us that God the Father “makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and the unjust” (Matthew 5:45 (NKJV)). Think about it. God blesses those who aren’t following Him with all sorts of good things – like family, good health, and money.

But if you are God’s child then you also have a promise to hold onto. God has promised,

No good thing will He withhold from those who walk uprightly. (Psalm 84:11(NKJV))

Uprightly means without blemish, complete, perfect, without spot, undefiled. God looks on those who follow Jesus as ones who walk uprightly. They obtain their righteousness – their uprightness – not from what they have done but through their faith in Jesus (Philippians 3:9). So, if you are following Jesus, God promises that He will not withhold a good thing from you.

If you have been praying for something that seems good and God has not given it to you then it is not good for you. It may be that the timing is not right. Or it may be something that will never be good for you.

Unlike you, God knows everything. He is eternal and knows all things (1 John 3:20; Revelation 1:8-9). God knows the beginning from the end (Isaiah 46:9-10). He knows everything about you (Psalm 139:1-4). He knows exactly what would happen if He gives something to you – what you will do with it and how it will affect you. In other words, God knows if the thing you’ve been wanting would be good for you.

Let’s put it in perspective. We’ve all seen children who want things they shouldn’t have. Maybe a child wants to eat a candy bar just before dinner. His father tells the child no, and the child gets angry. Why? The child wants the candy right at that moment. But the father knows it would spoil the child’s appetite. If the child eats the candy before dinner, he won’t eat the nutritious food that his body needs. It’s not that the father will never allow the child to eat the candy. The timing is not right.

Or maybe the child wants to play in the street. The father doesn’t let the child do so because the child could get hurt by a passing car. The father will never give his child permission to play in the street. Doing so would never be good for the child.

How much more does God the Father know what is and isn’t good for us than our earthly fathers ever did. God knows what is not good for us now and what will never be good for us. We can trust Him to do what is best for us.

Two Women, Two Wells, One Faithful God

Two Women, Two Wells, One Faithful God

As I was reading through Genesis the other day, I came to the part where Abraham’s servant goes to get a bride for Abraham’s son Isaac. Abraham asked his servant to swear that he would not take a bride for Isaac from one of the women in the land where they were living but that he would go back to his family for a bride (Genesis 24:2-4). The servant did so and traveled to the place where Abraham had once lived (Genesis 24:9-10).

After the servant came to that place, he went to the well in the evening when the women would go to draw water (Genesis 24:11). Then he prayed.

O LORD God of my master Abraham, please give me success this day, and show kindness to my master Abraham. Behold, here I stand by the well of water, and the daughters of the men of the city are coming out to draw water. Now let it be that the young woman to whom I say, “Please let down your pitcher that I may drink,” and she says, “Drink, and I will also give your camels a drink” – let her be the one You have appointed for Your servant Isaac. (Genesis 24:12-14 (NKJV))

While he was still praying, Rebekah came to the well to draw water (Genesis 24:15). When he asked Rebekah for a drink, she agreed (Genesis 24:17-18). Then Rebekah offered – on her own – to draw water for his camels (Genesis 24:19).

This was no small task. A camel is a desert animal that can go a long time without drinking water. But when it does, a camel will drink about 30 gallons. And the servant had brought ten camels with him (Genesis 24:10). That’s about 300 gallons of water that Rebekah had to draw from the well!

God had answered the servant’s prayer while he was still speaking it. Amazing. Then it struck me. This is not the only woman we meet at a well in the Bible. And the two women were so very different.

We meet the other woman in the book of John. Jesus and His disciples were traveling from Jerusalem to the Galilee, and Jesus “needed” to go through Samaria (John 4:3-4 (NKJV)). Going through Samaria would break the Jewish practice of going around Samaria. The reason it was a big deal for the Jewish people to travel through that area is another blog post in itself. For our purposes here, let’s just say that it was not a common thing to do.

When Jesus and His disciples reached a certain well, the disciples went into the city to buy food (John 4:6, 8). But Jesus sat by the well on the edge of the city (John 4:6). As we read further, we see that Jesus had a plan for a woman who He would meet there.

What a stark difference there was between the woman Jesus ministered to and Rebekah:

  • Rebekah was a young, beautiful woman, while the other woman was older (Genesis 24:16; John 4:18).
  • Rebekah was a virgin; the other woman had been married five times and was living with a man who was not her husband (Genesis 24:16; John 4:18).
  • Rebekah went to the well in the evening, which was the usual time women would go to draw water because it was cooler; the other woman went at noon in the heat of the day, probably to avoid the other women (Genesis 24:11; John 4:6).

In short, Rebekah was vibrant and ready to begin a new life; the other woman was broken and likely felt worthless.

You may be more like Rebekah: younger, raised in a good family, eager to serve the Lord. Or you may be more like the other woman: feeling run down, regretful about wasting portions of your life by living in sin. Whatever your story, whatever your past, it’s not too late. God can still work through your life. The amazing thing we see from these two women is not what they did but what God can do.

Regardless of where you are in your life, God can do His work through you if you are willing and available. The important things the two women had in common was their availability and their willingness to be used by God for His purposes.

When asked if she was willing to go with Abraham’s servant to become Isaac’s bride, Rebekah answered, “I will go” (Genesis 24:58 (NKJV)). Rebekah didn’t hesitate. She was willing to go to a different land and become a wife to a man she had never met because it was God’s plan. The night before, the servant had recounted the oath he had sworn to Abraham, his journey to find a wife for Isaac from Abraham’s family, his prayer at the well when he arrived, and God’s answer to His prayer “before [he] had finished speaking in [his] heart” (Genesis 24:34-47 (NKJV)). She witnessed the servant’s praise that he gave to God when the prayer had been answered (Genesis 24:48, 52).

Rebekah went even though it must have been scary, going to the unknown, which would change her circumstances for the rest of her life. Yet, she went. And God blessed Rebekah with being the mother of Jacob (whose name was later changed to Israel). Rebekah’s grandchildren became the 12 tribes of Israel from whom the Messiah Jesus would eventually be born.

The other woman also chose to make herself available to do God’s work. After meeting the Messiah Jesus, she left her waterpot to go into the city to tell everyone about Jesus (John 4:28-29). She brought the men of her city to meet Jesus (John 4:30). As a result of her testimony, many of them believed (John 4:39-42).

Whatever your story, God has a purpose for your life too. He has fashioned days for you (Psalm 139:16). Will you choose to make yourself available to walk in the days God has made for you?

Training Wheels

Training Wheels

Remember when you were first learning to ride a bicycle? I do. My dad put an extra set of wheels on my bike that extended off the back wheel to give it more stability. With the training wheels on, I could sit on the bike without balancing and get used to pedaling and moving forward without worrying about falling over.

After I got used to riding my bike with the training wheels, the day came when he took them off. Instead of the extra wheels, my dad held onto the back of the bike’s seat, giving me a little more stability as I learned to balance. Before long, I had learned how to balance and could ride my bike without thinking about it. It had become second nature to me.

In a similar way, when God calls us to do His work, He doesn’t push us into it when we’re not ready. God is gracious to us. Like the training wheels on my bike, He helps us to get used to whatever He’s called us to do before we go solo. The methods God uses will vary in each one of our lives. We are all different, and God tailors the help He gives us to our unique personalities and abilities.

We see an example of God’s use of training wheels in the life of Moses. When God called Moses to lead the Israelites out of their slavery in Egypt, Moses wasn’t quick to agree. Instead, he came up with several excuses about why he should not be the one to lead them. Moses said to God, “Who am I that I should go to Pharoah, and that I should bring the children of Israel out of Egypt?” (Exodus 3:11 (NKJV)). In response, God told Moses that He would be with Moses and gave him a sign that He had sent him (Exodus 3:12).

Even with God’s assurance, Moses still didn’t agree to go, saying, “But suppose they will not believe me or listen to my voice; suppose they say, ‘The Lord has not appeared to you’” (Exodus 4:1 (NKJV)). God then gave Moses three miraculous signs to do before the Israelites so they would believe him (Exodus 4:2-9).

Yet, Moses came up with a third excuse. Moses said, “O my Lord, I am not eloquent, neither before nor since You have spoken to Your servant; but I am slow of speech and slow of tongue” (Exodus 4:10 (NKJV)). “So the Lord said to him, ‘Who has made man’s mouth? Or who makes the mute, the deaf, the seeing, or the blind? Have not I, the Lord?’” (Exodus 4:11 (NKJV)). God then told Moses that He would be with his mouth and teach him what to say (Exodus 4:12).

Still, instead of submitting in obedience, Moses told God, “O my Lord, please send by the hand of whomever else You may send” (Exodus 4:13 (NKJV)). In other words, “Thank you very much, but please send someone else. I don’t want to do it.”

God, being so gracious to Moses, then tells Moses that his brother Aaron, who could “speak well,” could be his spokesman (Exodus 4:14-16 (NKJV)). God instructed Moses, “Now you shall speak to him and put the words in his mouth. And I will be with your mouth and with his mouth, and I will teach you what you shall do” (Exodus 4:15 (NKJV)).

Finally, Moses obeyed God. As we read, we see the progression as Moses gets comfortable doing the work that God called him to do.

  • Moses begins by relying on the “training wheels” that God gave him. When Moses met Aaron, he told Aaron “all the words of the Lord who had sent him, and all the signs which He had commanded him” (Exodus 4:28 (NKJV)). Moses and Aaron gathered together the elders of the children of Israel, and Aaron spoke “all the words which the Lord had spoken to Moses” and did the signs in their sight (Exodus 4:29-30 (NKJV)). “So the people believed” (Exodus 4:31 (NKJV)).
  • Later, Moses and Aaron went to Pharaoh, and they told Pharaoh what God had told them to say (Exodus 5:1, 3).
  • Soon, we see Moses himself speaking to the Israelites and to Pharaoh (Exodus 6:9; 8:9, 26).

Despite this rocky start, Moses made it into the revered “Hall of Faith” and is remembered for the work that God did through him (Hebrews 11:24-28).

Just as God helped Moses, He will give you the “training wheels” you need to get started when you obediently step out in faith to do what God has called you to do. So when God gives you direction, step out in faith. Often God will not give you the next step or tell you where you are going until you obey and take that first step.

Vain Labor

Vain Labor

Unless the Lord builds the house, they labor in vain who build it. (Psalm 127:1 (NKJV))

The Hebrew word for vain in this verse means useless, empty, worthless. When you are building your house – your family – it must be built by God. If it’s not built by God your labor is useless, empty, worthless.

Jesus told us what happens when we labor in vain.

Therefore whoever hears these sayings of Mine, and does them, I will liken him to a wise man who built his house on the rock: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it did not fall, for it was founded on the rock.

But everyone who hears these sayings of Mine, and does not do them, will be like a foolish man who built his house on the sand: and the rain descended, the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house; and it fell. And great was its fall. (Matthew 7:24-27 (NKJV))

Unfortunately, I can attest to the truth of these verses. I didn’t come to the Lord until later in life, when my son was 15 years old. Before I started following Jesus, I got married, and we had our son. And I began building our house on the principles of this world. I read many, many books on parenting. We took parenting classes. I applied the principles I learned in the books and the classes. I even applied things I had learned from watching television shows that depicted a family life I admired.

I was told, and believed, that a woman could have it all, could do it all. I could have my career, rear my child, make money, and build a household. I could be everywhere and do everything. I could file motions with the court in the morning, help my son with his homework late in the afternoon, make dinner for our family, and bake cookies in the evening. I was assured that it was okay to put my child in the care of others during the daytime, so I could pursue my career and give my son a better life.

Brick by brick, we assembled our house on various worldly principles. We encouraged our son to modify his behavior through rewards and incentives. We imposed consistent rules, limiting television and video games. We provided our son with opportunities to experience different activities, so he could find something he enjoyed. We traveled. We placed an emphasis on our son’s education. We ate dinner as a family. We ensured that we knew where our son was at all times.

Many of those principles are good things in and of themselves. The problem was the foundation. Instead of a solid foundation, I was building right on the ground that was there. I didn’t first ensure the principles were built on the Rock of Jesus.

When I submitted my life to Jesus, I added to the bricks rather than starting a new structure. I added to the house that was already there. Sure, my personal foundation was now strong. Jesus became my foundation, and I was building a new life brick by brick as I learned new Biblical principles. But I didn’t start building anew when it came to our family.

Instead, I simply added to the bricks; I added new rules. Now it was a rule that we all go to church together on a Sunday. I tried to get my son involved with the other teens at our church. We began to pray before we ate family meals. I started reading my Bible some and went to a few Bible studies. I started listening to Christian music part of the time. But the bricks were placed on top of what was already there.

I didn’t address my son’s heart. I don’t think I understood that I needed to. I didn’t explain to him the change that Jesus had made in my life. I didn’t tell him why we were doing some things differently. I thought he would understand solely by observation. Besides, we were the parents, and he was the child. It wasn’t a matter of explaining our actions.

Then one day, without warning, a storm came, and the house fell.

And great was its fall.

Because of my spiritual immaturity at that point, I went back to the world for answers when the house fell. I read every parenting book I could find and talked to a counselor. Nothing made sense. Nothing explained what had happened. I sifted through the rubble for a long time, trying to salvage bits and pieces until the Lord showed me it needed to be cleared away and rebuilt on Him.

Then, as we turned to Jesus, God started rebuilding our house. Slowly, God helped us to clear the rubble. He helped us to lay a sure foundation. My husband and I started building on that foundation, on the truths that Jesus had taught us. The house was rebuilt with the assistance of our loving, faithful God. Our marriage is now stronger than it has ever been because it is built on the solid foundation of Jesus. Since we’ve rebuilt our house, we’ve had other storms come our way. But our new house has endured them all. Praise God, because He is faithful!

What is your house built on? If it is not built on Jesus, the Rock, it’s never too late to rebuild. But you must make a choice to build your house on Him. If you don’t choose to build your house on Jesus and His teachings, the choice will be made for you.

Choose this day whom you will serve. “But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15 (NKJV)).

Don’t Be Anxious. . . Meditate on Truth

Don’t Be Anxious. . . Meditate on Truth

This past year has been difficult for everyone. COVID-19 has impacted all of our lives in varying ways. Some have lost family members or friends. Others have lost jobs or their businesses. Although not everyone has lost loved ones or their livelihood, we have all been impacted in some way.

It seems the world changed overnight. If you had told me a few years ago that there would be a time when I’d be working from home for over a year and would be required to wear a mask every time I went to the grocery store or to church, I would have thought you were crazy.

Along with the difficulties, people have experienced feelings of anxiety, depression, hopelessness, sadness, isolation, and loneliness. What should we do with these feelings? The Bible gives us the answer. Philippians 4:6-7 tells us,

Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus. (NKJV)

Talk to God about how you are feeling, about the things that have been happening in your life. Tell Him what you need and how you feel. Nothing will surprise Him. He already knows all your thoughts (Psalm 139:2). Telling God about your feelings isn’t for God’s benefit, it’s for your benefit. God wants us to come to Him with everything that we’re thinking about because He cares for us (1 Peter 5:7).

When you come to God, thank Him for what He has already done in your life. Spend time in fellowship with Him. In exchange, God has promised to give you a peace that surpasses all understanding. It’s not natural to feel a sense of peace during times of difficulty. It’s a supernatural peace that can only come from trusting God.

After you have prayed through the verses in Philippians 4:6-7, don’t stop there. Look at the next verse,

Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy – meditate on these things. (Philippians 4:8 (NKJV)).

You see, trying not to think about something doesn’t work. When you tell yourself, “I will not think about it,” inevitably you do think about whatever “it” is. Instead, we need to replace those thoughts by meditating on the things that God tells us to focus on.

Biblical meditation is different from the meditation that is practiced in yoga or other disciplines, in which you seek to empty your mind. The Greek word for meditate in Philippians means to reason or think on. The New Living Translation tells us to “[f]ix your thoughts on.” The idea is to ruminate or chew on those things. For example, you can take a Bible verse, memorize it, and then think about it word by word. Ask yourself about the verse’s context – where is it in the Bible, what are the verses around it, what does the verse mean? Think about what the verse tells you about God. Ask yourself how the verse applies to your life.

We can choose what we think about. If I want to think about an elephant, suddenly I have a picture of an elephant in my mind. I can picture what it looks like. If I meditate on that elephant, I can see its color, its shape, and the lines in its hide. Maybe the elephant starts to eat something by picking it up with its trunk. You get the idea. You can decide to do that with anything.

But as we saw, the Bible gives us a list of things we should think about. The first thing that we are told to meditate on in Philippians 4:8 is “whatever things are true.” There is a difference between what is true and what is false. Merriam Webster’s dictionary defines the word “true” as something that is “in accordance with the actual state of affairs,” and truth means “reality” or “the quality or state of being accurate.” Conversely, things are false if they are not true.

Absolute truth is something that is true and does not change no matter what your circumstances are. Some people deny that there can be absolute truth. Instead, they believe that truth is relative. Relativism is a belief that truth is based on a person’s own experiences, that truth changes from person to person.

But the Bible teaches us that there is absolute truth. We know that Jesus is truth (John 14:6). Meditate on the things that Jesus has done for you. Jesus died for your sins on the cross so your sins could be forgiven. If you decide to follow Jesus, your sins will be forgiven, and you will have eternal life (John 3:16).

We also know that God’s Word, the Bible, is true. The Bible tells us that God “made heaven, the heaven of heavens, with all their host, the earth and everything on it, the seas and all that is in them, and [He] preserve[s] them all” (Nehemiah 9:6 (NKJV)). God is the Creator. Meditate on that. When you see a beautiful sunset, remember that it was made by God. The majestic mountains – God. The vast oceans – also made by God.

Thinking about even one aspect of God’s creation is amazing. God created flowers. He didn’t make just one flower in a single color. No, He created many, many types of flowers in a variety of shapes, colors, and sizes. Flowers come in just about every conceivable color that you could imagine. They are various shades of purple, pink, red, yellow, white, and orange. There are lilies, tulips, roses, bougainvillea, chrysanthemums, hydrangeas, dahlias, carnations, peonies, daffodils, irises, sunflowers, buttercups, orchids, marigolds, petunias, daisies, and many more. And did you know that an artichoke is actually a flower? And capers are pickled flower buds. Even more astonishing is that a fig is technically not a fruit but an inverted flower. It is truly awesome when you think about it. God is awesome!

If something pops into your mind while you’re thinking about the things that God told you to meditate on, take that thought captive. The Bible instructs us to bring “every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ” (2 Corinthians 10:5 (NKJV)). Don’t allow yourself to continue to think about that thought. It will derail you and you will start to think about your problems and feel anxious again. Instead of letting that thought take your mind off the things of God, recognize that it’s there, capture it, and ask God to take it out of your mind. Ask God to help you keep your mind focused on Him. He will help you if you ask. Train your mind to meditate on the things God has told you to think about. When you do, you will experience the peace that God has promised.